gender is... a curious thing.

what it means to be a guy, and what it means to be a girl? is it just a bunch of societal norms, and being pressured to act a certain way? or is there more to it?

what does even make things "boyish" or "girlish"? why devision? why can't we just make things for everyone?

again, if gender is such an unimportant thig, why are some of us unhappy with appereance of our bodies? why?

i have no clue what gender is, or how it works. if i did, i'd be much happier.